Heat of the Moment

I never really thought I'd be actually turning this blog in to movie review, or more precisely a Korean dramas review blog. However, I enjoy doing it, so? The drama I'm gonna be blogging about today is "When A Man Loves" (now re-read the title together with the tune in your head...hahaha).

When A Man Loves

I've never really watched a drama or movie, of which the focus of the entire movie was on a love triangle. For most of the movies that I've watched, the love triangle was pretty much a sub-theme, and even for movies that focused on marital problems, I can only think of two movies that I've watched and they were both English movies. So here's the Korean take on this issue. My reaction to it? Well, as usual, they open up many exit doors along the way of the drama, but usually end up in a common way. However I always appreciate the journey of any movie or drama, and I give credit to the journey and not judge the drama based solely on the ending. For this drama the journey was pretty good. The girl was pretty much two-timing and honestly if I was the (I shall refer to the guys as Original BF and Intruder BF) Original BF, I wouldn't actually know how to react to the scene of me catching my girlfriend doing "something" with another guy - Intruder BF. 

And for all these how-to-react moments, I think the director's take on it was pretty interesting. Also, as the title of this blog, I think the strongest message that came out of from this drama (I'm assuming the director/writer is trying to stress on it) is that don't over react in the heat of the moment, be it a good event or bad, even if it seems like that is the best thing to do at the moment. If you have actually done something, take some time off, cool down and re-approach the situation. It will all seem better (well, at least that's what the drama is trying to say). Do I feel that's true? As of now, I'm not sure because I'm a person who doesn't look back at my decisions, especially if I gave it some thought before doing it. Hence, I do not re-approach problems. Perhaps one day the circumstances in my life will change and I will have a different take on this. 

Besides trying to "calm down before doing stupid things", I also got this from the drama: "If you don't know what you want, you will lose even what you have". That wasn't a quote from the drama. I just came up with it as a summary. There were many other love-life quotes used on the "chalk board" which were quite beautiful, but I'm not gonna talk about it here. So, anyway set your priorities straight and aim for your objective in life. Everybody has one, even if you think you don't. Your life principles and morals will change along the way, and its affected by your social circle, conditioning of your childhood, and your current circumstances. However, when you have a fixed goal to achieve, the journey doesn't really matter anymore. Please do notice how my "the journey is important" principal changed as quickly as from the beginning of this blog towards the end. There are many paths to the mountain top anyway.

Its impressive to see how low or how far a human being can go in getting what they want. I think the Koreans do a good job in highlighting this fact in most Korean dramas. But I guess that fact is true even in real life. But who are we to judge another person by the way they live their lives. We are all hypocrites, we are all sinners. So do your best in living this life well, and all the best in achieving your life goal.

- And I think to myself, What a Wonderful World -